Women this one is for y'all?

I have the confidence, I have the clothes, I have the frikkin shiny shoes. I take care of myself BUT I'm 35 lbs overweight. No girl will give me the time of day. I brush it off and move on, but it's getting really tiresome. To say that 'it's your own fault and you need to be more outgoing' is irrelevant now, because I AM outgoing, I AM confident and I have lots of wonderful talents (I am artist and musically inclined) I'm compionate, I volunteer at the humane society. I'm not a bum, I work and go to school full time to be a Paramedic. Now, I'm not attempting to brag here, but am I too good to be true to most women or are most women just extremely shallow??? This is almost like forced loneliness and, even though I'm happy where I am in life, I'm getting kind of lonely.... So what gives????